Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Thoughts on the Lakewood Police murders

Perhaps like many of you, I was stunned and angered by the brutality of the murder of four Lakewood, Washington police officers last Sunday evening. The fact that each of these police officers were parents and family members makes this especially difficult to absorb. Brian Wurts, President of the Lakewood Police Independent Guild, made an extensive blog entry on the Guild website regarding this senseless act; here is a short excerpt:

We lost our brothers and sister yesterday. We have not slept and to be honest I do not know what more I am able to do. I do not want to sleep; we want this criminal brought to justice. Like my members with attest I will sit at my computer and write to them when I need to put it out there. Tonight I will write to them and anyone else who will listen about our four heroes. I will not get into why this suspect was out on the streets in this writing but that time will come. Instead I would like to share a couple comments about our friends who were taken away from us and their loved ones. I have never cried like I have over the past 16 hours and I hope sharing a couple things about these individuals will bring those citizens we are truly proud to serve closer to us.
Since Mr. Wurt wrote that entry the suspect was in fact killed by an officer of the Seattle Police Department. For those who are interested in making a benevolence gift to the families of the slain officers, here is the LPIG website. Also, the LPIG address is: P.O. Box 99579 Lakewood, WA 98499.

Friday, November 27, 2009

A belated "Happy Thanksgiving"

I did not post a Happy Thanksgiving! note yesterday -- but I have to now, especially after my last post. Here is a fun one I found...

A suicide in Chicago has lasting effects on witnesses

An article recently appeared in the Chicago Tribune on the effects of an anonymous suicide witnessed by simple passers-by...not even family members. These bystanders witnessed Cameron Watson leap from 17 stories in downtown Chicago in September, 2009.

These bystanders -- who came from around the country -- watched the local building maintenance worker die by his own decision, and it had a significant effect. It is frequently argued that suicide is a "victimless" crime (when it is even thought of as a crime). but however the event is characterized, it is not "victimless,"as noted in the article:

The raindrop hits the water, and the wave ripples out.

In Missouri, a hospital volunteer takes a deep breath when a patient snaps at her. You never know what someone might be going through, she tells herself. In the Detroit airport, a traveling businessman sees a soldier coming home from Iraq, wonders if he might need someone to listen, and offers to buy him a drink.

"You get back in your regular life, but there are definitely times where I think of him," said Jennifer Wirth, 41, a teacher in Milwaukee. "I have family members who deal with depression, and I just kind of keep that in my head, to remember to always reach out."
(Hat tip to Prof. Beyer for bringing this to my attention. He hosts the Wills, Trusts and Estates Prof. Blog)

Thursday, November 19, 2009

Where should you keep your estate planning documents?

Clients always ask where they should keep their will and important estate documents. As attorneys habitually do, I usually respond: “It depends.” Is your family emotionally supportive and close, or is there contention? Are you ill? Are you healthy; or under hospice care? There are many variables, and the best method of storage is almost completely based upon common sense. However, here are some general guidelines:

In a Safe Deposit Box: These are good places for wills and trust documents– as long as your family knows about the box and has access to it. If the box is jointly held, your joint holder should be told that the will is in it. However, if only you have a key, then the executor of your will should be informed (1) that the will is in the box, and (2) is told where the key is. An executor may be able to force access to the box after being appointed by the court, but it will require additional effort and expense. When it is possible, planning ahead is better.

With Your Important Papers: Placing the will and trust documents with your important papers is a good option – unless you are concerned about fire, theft or destruction. If you have a contentious family situation (or suspect there may be one), this is probably not a good idea if the person who may contest your estate plan has initial access to these documents. Again, use common sense in making this decision.

In California, if estate planning documents cannot be located, it is presumed that they were destroyed with the intent to revoke. They may be revoked through numerous means – including outright destruction – at any time before death. The assumption that the “lost” will was revoked can be overcome through litigation, but advance planning can avoid the problem. But this should give you no comfort – think about it: You are dead. Yet, the court must decide your actions. How can it be proved that you did not destroy the will with the intent to revoke? This is a difficult, avoidable issue.

This also emphasizes the importance of taking a cold, hard, and honest look at your family situation. You would be amazed at what people are capable of when money is involved. But I believe that most people really, truly know the character of their family members. You really do know what those close to you (or not so close to you, as the case may be) are capable of. Act on your “gut” instincts in deciding how to maintain these records.

With your Attorney: I generally do not retain the originals of estate planning documents (even though I do not discount the possibility that I might make arrangements, in an appropriate, emergency circumstance). If appropriate, this is another possibility – as long as your executor knows where to find the document. As always, the important element is that the important person has knowledge and access to these records.

Monday, November 16, 2009

A Funny Look at Not-So-Funny Greed

In my law school class on wills and trusts, the professor called them the "grubby group" -- greedy claimants not always having a legitimate claim against an estate. Even if the 911 call in this video is staged, its a humorous look at a subject we estate planners are all too familiar with...



(Hat tip to Prof. Beyer, Wills, Trusts and Estates Prof Blog)

Saturday, September 19, 2009

Advance Healthcare Directives -- like a free toy?

Recently I have completed a great number of advance healthcare directives (also called "Living Wills" in some states) for clients. I once read an article which suggested that a Directive was something on the periphery of an estate plan -- it even indicated that a directive should be just given by the attorney "for free" -- as if it were incidental to the "real" estate plan. I guess a "real" estate plan to this author would only be the money left behind to a client's heirs, and that the client's own health and comfort is of less importance.

Now, I am certainly not advocating overcharging clients, but I object to the idea that an end-of-life Healthcare Directive is something like a free toy in a cereal box. A Directive is simply not an inconsequential part of an estate plan. Sometimes, its the only and the most important part.

Very recently I prepared an estate plan for a middle age client who had little money, and no family. She only had a small handful of concerned friends. Her only remaining asset, her health, had been taken by cancer. In that case, the directive was the only aspect of her personal "estate."

When we think of an "estate," we understandably think of money. However, our "estate" is in fact everything -- and the most important part involves our health, and our dignity.

Saturday, September 12, 2009

A happy and sad and heroic blog post

Planning and estates is not just about the money (even though, unfortunately, to many it might seem that it comes down to just that). Planning, actually, is something that has to do with life: How we live; what is important; making sure that our loved ones are provided for.

I came across a blog post written by Chicago Sun-Times writer Lacy Banks, entitled "I'm Not Afraid to Die. What About You?"

I will not even summarize it. It speaks for itself.